
Who’s in control of your actions? Are the decisions you make a reflection of what you truly want to do?
For the vast majority of us, it’s the influence of other people – friends, family, colleagues, role models etc. This is for the sole reason that we have been thought to operate in this manner from young. We were taught that feeling accepted was important, and that when we “listened to what others said”, we were good. Our education system taught us the importance of strength in numbers, not to want to be singled out from the crowd, and we learnt that so well that as adults, the sheep mentality followed us.
There’s an adage...